Beauty meets the Beast. What happens when Value/Love encounters Willpower/Control?… Well, let’s just say that this is not going to be pretty unless you understand the nature of the choice you face.
The challenge is about understanding and expressing your value or self-worth, and you are under pressure from within and without. Venus is winging its way through Aries, singing the song of individualism and the value of being “I”. You feel you must assert your uniqueness and be free to be yourself.
Yet “pure” freedom leads to a chaotic “state of nature”, where everyone is for themselves without regard for one another.
Now that urge for perfect freedom is encountering Pluto. Pluto is laying down the challenge from Capricorn: that your pursuit of “I” must be limited by the need for order and the fulfillment of responsibilities; it is the outer order you submit to and the inner order of your self-control. In fact, your ability to be free depends upon a general social order, (and within that order by the quality of your personal relationships), and upon your capacity for self-control. It is that general order and your relationships formed within it which circumscribe your freedom as they also preserve and protect it.
Yet an order that just “is”, that upholds order and tradition uncritically, leads to stagnation, meaninglessness and the denial of spiritual growth.
So the urge to be free to be oneself more truly is confronting the order which helped create the conditions for freedom. The tension is between how conditions for freedom are created by a certain structure of relationships, and the fact that this structure must also limit your freedom at the same time.
What is the lesson, what is the choice?
As always the lesson is about your spiritual growth. You and your world are constantly evolving: physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. The values created and embodied in your relationships capture a moment in time in the growth of spiritual self-realization. As you continue to unfold your potentials that very structure which supported you now comes to limit you. The lesson is to remember that you are the creator of the world you are in… You can and will change it. The only question is: how consciously will you bring about a new order?
The false choice here is between asserting freedom and breaking with the order that is, or using force to maintain relationships that are one-sided. You either break your responsibilities to others or force them to fulfill your needs. (Or they force you to serve them.) Either way denies true freedom or meaningful order. But, remember, there is always the “Third Way”, the Way of Understanding.
The core issue here is Venus/Value. It is your shared values that bind you to one another in any relationship from the personal to the collective. What you must do now is use the power of Pluto to deeply re-examine what values are true for you and for the other. What you need to do is determine your hierarchy of values, and come to know which are worth sacrificing in order to make the relationship possible. And as you do this you re-affirm the common values that you share with one another. These common values are what bind you to one another; these shared values are the living reality which forms what is Love.
Eventually, as you go still deeper, your spiritual growth is quickened by your experience that all of creation comes from one Spiritual source, and that we are bound to one another not by compulsion but by that Greater Understanding, which is so sublimely met in our Love for one another.
So, let Pluto/Hades take you into the depths of your being so that you may find the “Pearl of Great Price”, the secret treasure of Venus/Value at the core of your soul. For it is there that you will meet the one within which is the same as the One of Creation.
You will understand that the great illusion of this world is your sense of separateness; and, you will understand the Great Truth, felt through your experience of love, that we are one in Spirit.
E Pluribus Unum! (Out of many, One!)